How Should Guys 
Find the Right Girl

 

How Should Guys Find the Right Girl?

I thought this would be an easy subject but the fact of the matter is Guys will be Guys.

Okay I am a guy so let me give you a few tips on dating I think that you will need!  First of all, Don't Let Her See That Big Chip on Your Shoulder.  You know what I am talking about Guys.  The big macho dude.  The Guys that cannot be hurt by man or beast much less a girl.  Drop it now.  If you want to attract the right kind of girl then SHE will see right through that garbage.

Find a Like-Minded Love Interest on the 'Net.  This I thought would be easy but this can be tough for a guy.  In a nut shell you need to match your likes with her likes.  It's that simple.  I am one of those types that over-think something like this and well it starts running out of control.

How about this "Set Up Your Profile to Attract the Right Kind of Women".  WOW!  That's like tying a steak around your neck to get the dog to play with you.  Do you want to be deceitful?  Well, there are ways to be honest and open to make this suggestion work for you.

I left the last two simply because they can be VERY intimidating for a guy.

Striking Up a Conversation with a Woman.  The secret here is looking for an opportunity.  An open door if you will.  A gutsy move is to say something funny or stupid just to get a laugh.  But that is me and I am more stupid than funny.

Weeding Out the Wrong Kind of Women.  Maybe I should not go TOO deep here because I KNOW there are some females reading these pages.  For me I rely on my friends for a certain level of filtering but I do have two friends that I know that I can rely on for honesty.  But the final cut comes from the heart as it should be.

So I invite you my brothers to dig into this subject and consider the possibilities.